Conversations – They Really Do Help!

Sometimes it only takes a conversation to address a problem and find a solution. In fact, most problems can be resolved through conversation. (If only world leaders thought so, too! Perhaps many wars and battles could have been avoided…)

Kids rise to the occasion and respond in mature ways when they are trusted to do so.

THE PROBLEM:

a messy classroom; materials not returned to their places; everyone waiting for someone else to tidy up.

THE SOLUTION:

–I will make sure that students have 5 minutes at the end of class to clean up. – Everyone will take care of their own materials. – Everyone will remind someone at their table to tidy up if they’ve forgotten. -Everyone will pick up materials and garbage off the floor, the living room area, and the carpet area. -No one will leave the class until the room is ready for the next activity.

It worked like a charm. All. Day. Long.

So simple, yet I didn’t address this problem with the kids right away. Instead,  I kept nagging and nagging and nothing changed.

Sometimes, it only takes a conversation to make things better.

Cross posted to the Two Writing Teachers Tuesday Slice of Life.


8 responses to “Conversations – They Really Do Help!”

  1. Lisa Keeler Avatar

    So much truth in your title. What a great feeling it is to have a conversation and see the change.

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    1. Elisa Waingort Avatar

      It is a great feeling!

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  2. Terje Avatar
    Terje

    I am happy that you and kids were able to find a solution to the problem. Enjoy the tidy room.

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    1. Elisa Waingort Avatar

      Hey, Terje! Of course, only time will tell but so far, so good.

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  3. macrush53 Avatar

    When hold them accountable, they rise to ridiculous levels.

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    1. Elisa Waingort Avatar

      Isn’t that the truth! Works in every area of life, I think.

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  4. Darin Johnston Avatar

    Was this a badass conversation? 🙂 Kidding aside, sometimes, it’s the simple things that get us the best results! Here’s to more productive talks with your kids! 🙂

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    1. Elisa Waingort Avatar

      LOL! Yep! I guess it was. Thank you for the encouragement.

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